Sunday, May 22, 2016

Profound Article from The Atlantic

Men in particular think that they have achieved something if they can make a woman mad, particularly if she is calm and intellectual. Often, they use the attempt to make you mad as a way of flirting, no doubt thinking that unlocking the pent-up emotions of such a woman is a sexual victory. (And note that they assume these emotions are pent up in general, not merely unavailable to them!) This exceedingly tedious exercise shows that they have few or no interesting resources for flirting (such as humor or imagination), and it really has the opposite effect from the one intended, boring the woman, who has certainly seen this before, and making them look very silly.
Excerpt from The Anger of the American People, a delicious conversation between The Atlantic's Emma Green and philosopher Martha Nussbaum. The rest dialogue is here

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